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The holidays for escorts and other ASPs

Thanksgiving, Black Friday, Christmas decorations in all the stores the day after Halloween; it’s that time of the year. Good news and bad news for escorts. Good news because many clients love to follow up a Christmas party with the pleasures an escort can offer, bad news because clients are often caught up with family driven Christmas events and can’t get away. Like any mixed blessing, the Holiday Season for escorts is as much about planning and creativity as it is about an expected fall off in business. Continue reading

Snow bunny: Skiing and escorting

We had talked to “Summer” in the early fall but we had seen her ads last winter. “Apres ski with Me!” is a headline which you just don’t miss.

“OK, I love to ski.” said Summer on Skype. “But a season’s skiing is expensive and you really can’t make much money as a liftie or waitressing in one of the ski-resorts. Plus, during the season, finding a place to rent is crazy expensive.”

“I’d done a little escorting in college. You know, just end of the month and the rent is due sort of thing. Nothing fancy. But I liked what I saw of escorting, even with an agency, and I thought I might keep doing it a bit when I graduated.” Continue reading

How to make time for being an escort (or another type of ASP)?

If you’re new to the adult service industry, you are probably trying to figure out the best way to fit the new occupation into your lifestyle. This might be hard. Unless you’re accustomed to shift work already, society pretty much trains most of us to wake in the morning, work during the day and sleep at night. But, when you are trying to become an adult services provider, that schedule may not quite coincide with the times you will need to work in order to acquire clients and meet their availability. Consider these tips as you attempt to make time to be an adult services provider: Continue reading

13 ways for escorts to stay positive in a negative world

Not only does the gloom and doom in the news cast negative light in the world, but the people you encounter may bring you down with their pessimistic and, generally, bad attitudes. Working in the adult industry as an entertainment provider, you battle the stigma daily that suggests you are “dirty”, unintelligent, under the influence, or immoral. It’s a tough world to live in, but you don’t have to let it get to you. There are many ways you can stay positive in an oppressively negative world. Consider these methods of choosing your outlook: Continue reading

The escort’s 13 ways to loosen up before going on

Whether it’s stage fright or just the fear of the unknown that suddenly hits an escort or any other adult service provider, it can be hard to mentally and physically prepare for performances for clients and customers. Much like any other kind of performer or service provider, there are many relaxation techniques you can use to loosen up prior to the “big event.” Relaxation may not be the only thing you need to consider as you get ready to take the stage or meet up with a client. Review these tips to help you loosen up and build yourself up for a stellar performance: Continue reading

How to reject and be rejected in the adult entertainment world?

In the adult entertainment industry, both providers and clients get turned down and hand out rejections daily. It’s a common thing, but it’s kind of a big deal when it involves you personally. Knowing how to deal with it when it’s on your plate (as the giver or receiver) is the key to making sure that communications are clear and all interactions remain cordial and “nice” between all parties involved.

Here are some tips for both providers and customers: Continue reading

How and why to switch between the genres of adult entertainment?

The adult entertainment industry includes many unique genres. While they may all have some similarities and provide similar outcomes for customers, they include different methods of achieving client satisfaction. It’s fairly common for providers to begin following one career path, only to change directions as they learn more about other options. Transitioning to another adult entertainment genre is fully possible, if you follow some helpful tips and are altering your path for a good reason.

What are some justifiable and understandable reasons to change career directions within the industry? Continue reading

13 things you didn’t know about yourself until you became an escort

It’s certainly not every little girl’s dream to become an escort or web cam performer when she grows up. But, when the reality sets in and you find yourself absorbed into the industry as a successful adult entertainment services provider, you realize a number of things you probably take for granted about the career that weren’t even on your radar previously. Consider these things you didn’t even think about before: Continue reading