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Being a john ain’t easy: 13 points to consider

When you’re desiring the company of an adult services provider, it’s easy to assume many things about how the set up works. What you see in the movies and the things you fantasize about are not fully realistic, disappointingly enough. If you are new to the industry, you may be left with unfulfilled expectations. In fact, you will discover that being a customer has its own set of challenges requiring you to follow rules and obey guidelines. Before you get fully involved with scheduling a gig with your own adult entertainer, let’s walk through this list: Continue reading

10 disputes with a client that an escort should be prepared for

There is no business in existence that will sustain without some level of controversy with its clientele, at some point in time. It’s just a common part of doing business. You’re not always going to agree. When you’re an escort, it’s easy to take these disputes to heart. When you’re giving pieces of yourself and you put everything you have into your performances, it’s hurtful when someone acts displeased with your efforts. Some disputes are worth worrying about, while others shouldn’t stress you out, at all. Consider some common disputes you may run across as you do your thing: Continue reading

10 signs you need a break from adult entertainment

Any career can drive you to your wit’s end. You can feel like if you don’t get a day, week or month off you’ll scream, trash your office and move you and your family to a deserted island… if only you had the funds! Being a provider for the adult entertainment industry is no different. Although the job may sound glamorous and the pay is outstanding, there are stresses and hazards to the job that make you want to throw in the towel and go work at the corner gas station. But, you go back the next day or night. And, keep doing your thing. But at some point, you may experience an a-ha moment that tells you that you need a break from your career. You need to pay attention when you realize any of these things are true about yourself: Continue reading

15 ways adult entertainers’ work spills into their “real” lives

As an adult industry actor, you assume that there is no way ever that your professional life will cross over into your personal one. Obviously, what you do as a services provider is much, much different than your role as a wife, mother or daughter, right? That’s pretty true, but certain aspects of your life do cross over and affect your day-to-day life. Consider the following ways that your career impacts your “real” life: Continue reading

Escort as a life coach?

We received a note from an escort in Seattle who wrote, “I was reading your article about the girl in Washington DC who runs her ultra-discreet escorting business under the guise of a life coaching business. I thought that was pretty smart because I do much the same thing but with a fetish twist.”

Of course we wanted to know more and we arranged a Skype call with “Miss Fiona Arpel”. Miss Arpel is in her early thirties and when we video conferenced she was in a lovely, fitted, vintage suit sitting in what looked like a book lined study.

“Nicely headmistress don’t you think?” she said with a smile and we dove into our interview. Continue reading

Escorting the powers that be

“I am not at all an ultra high end girl.” said Jenny in our Skype call. “And my clients are not billionaires. They work for billionaires and they are certainly not hurting for money; but they are in a different niche.”

Escorting is a business about stratification. Super elite girls are more like models than the conventional picture of an escort. In fact, a fair number of the international courtesan set either are or have been exactly that, models. Continue reading

10 reasons why you thought “I’d never do THAT for a living”

Many people have applied multiple reasons in their heads as to why they would never explore the world of being an adult service provider. But, when these excuses/reasons are dismantled, it’s pretty obvious that they really don’t apply—at all! They were probably some of the same things you told yourself, too, before taking up the career, too! Take a look at the top 10 reasons you thought you’d never be an escort: Continue reading

13 pitfalls of adult entertainment

While there are numerous benefits to being an adult entertainer, there are some definite disadvantages, too. The lifestyle, itself, may lead to certain bad habits, while others are a result of association with the adult entertainment industry. Before getting too involved, it’s always wise to know exactly what you’re getting in to, so that you can make an informed decision. For some, these pitfalls are simply too much. Others, though, see the disadvantages as simply a risk of the trade. It’s up to you; weigh the pitfalls and determine if they are too much for you to handle: Continue reading

Toughen up: 11-point checklist for escorts

People enter the adult industry with the assumption that they can make a lot of money with very little work. They may be fed up with their “normal” careers and low pay. Or, they may feel the need to make some fast money, with little effort. The people who enter into the adult entertainment industry with these attitudes rarely succeed and quickly fail. If you’re serious about entering the adult entertainment industry as a provider, you need to know from the very beginning that you need to toughen up — ASAP. Here are some definite ways that you need to toughen up to be a top notch provider: Continue reading