Pros and cons of offering threesomes with another escort

While each escort has to feel out on her own whether working with another escort is for her, there are various considerations that make it potentially both a good or bad idea. Some escorts simply loathe the idea of providing threesome-type services, so the option is not even one up for debate. However, if you’re wondering about this type of option, review the following benefits and disadvantages. Of course, each escort will have her own experiences that may or may not coincide with these examples, but they provide a fairly broad view of the opportunity.

Pros

  1. It’s possible to generate more business between you and your partner when you combine your contacts and appeal. When you’re strictly working with your own marketing efforts and relying on your current client list for business, it is somewhat limited considering all of the potential clients out there you aren’t able to contact. However, when you join forces with another escort, your contact power essentially doubles. You get access to her client list, in addition to yours, plus taking advantage of the appeal she has to potential clients. Furthermore, many escorts find that certain clients look exclusively for threesome opportunities. When you offer this type of an encounter, you gain access to clients you weren’t even considered by previously. The opportunity to increase your profits through more business is definitely an advantage worth exploring.
  2. Doing threesome encounters with another escort helps to break up the boredom you may have with traditional bookings. After awhile, it’s easy to get burned out or complacent with your typical encounters with regulars. You know what to expect, how to act and which services are preferred. However, when you have threesome encounters with new clients (or with regulars), there’s an entirely different dynamic to them. Three people involved means three different creative minds dedicated to lust and carnal pleasure. The options are limitless and may be just the break you need to rejuvenate yourself so you’re fresh in the escort industry, again. Threesomes give you an opportunity to try something that you’re unable to do by yourself, unless your client brings a friend. The adventure opens up new possibilities for your escorting career and helps you build your enjoyment for bookings through bringing some variety into your career.
  3. A partner in crime (so to speak) is someone you can commiserate with about the escort industry. It’s difficult to find people you can “talk shop” with or discuss the trials and tribulations of being an escort with. If you’re open about your career with friends and family members, they may have a sympathetic ear, but they really can’t identify with what you discuss with them. However, another escort knows exactly where you’re coming from when you talk about your encounters. In addition to discussing the events of your day, another escort can also be a sounding board for you. Many industries encourage networking among their professionals in order to enhance individual performance through sharing ideas and methods. However, it’s rare to find a network of escorts you can do this with. (Online communities exist, but few face-to-face group meetings occur.) Whether you need advice about your new profile language, a sketchy client, services you are considering providing or anything else related to escorting, your threesome partner is a good person to bounce ideas off of.
  4. Escorts who work threesomes with other professionals find that security is heightened. One of the most important concerns of an escort when she visits with clients it her safety. When you work with another escort, that obviously puts one more person in the room who is on your side in the case of a violent or threatening client. Clients who might take a risk of being abusive to one escort are discouraged from those kinds of actions when they book threesomes. Knowing that a second escort can run for help or fight against him, the odds of a good outcome are against a client. Not only does it make for a safer environment for an escort, but it also increases your awareness of the situation. For example, you might miss that a camera is set up in the corner of the room, but your partner may see this. Two sets of eyes and instincts are better than one. Additionally, if your escort partner uses any kind of a security guard or driver when she goes on outcalls, you get to take advantage of that protocol, too, in addition to your own safety measures.
  5. Performing threesomes with another escort helps to take some of the burden off of you during difficult, demanding or lengthy encounters. Some clients are just hard to please. Others are so shy or reserved, the entire encounter seems awkward and forced. Other clients want lengthy sessions full of non-stop contact. Each of these scenarios can be challenging for an escort working on her own. However, when you join up with another escort to provide a threesome to a client, she shares some of the responsibility of the booking. You are not alone in trying to satisfy your client, she will help. Her efforts to lighten up conversation will definitely make an awkward encounter less stressful. And, her presence will give you a break when you meet with clients with unreal stamina and desire. All in all, you’re sharing the workload, which benefits each of you immensely. Often, after a lengthy encounter, escorts are so spent they can’t meet with another client for a day or two. However, when you’re sharing the load, you may be able to bounce back more quickly.
  6. Expansion of your services is possible when you include another escort in threesomes for clients. In addition to the obvious fact that you can now provide threesomes, the advantage gained through her offerings is a win-win, too. Maybe you prohibit anal intercourse, kissing or some other act that clients constantly ask for. When you join up with an escort who allows these activities, you don’t have to turn away these clients, any more. Instead of losing business, you are able to add them to your client list. And, once they see what you have to offer, the prohibited services may not matter to them when they are seeking individual bookings in the future. Keep in mind that after observing your partner engage in these activities, you may decide that you want to provide them, too, which is another way you are adding to what you offer clients.

Cons

  1. Your professional reputation is at risk. Associating yourself with another escort leaves you open to being judged based on client’s opinions of her. If she has left bad impressions with clients, you probably won’t be thought well of, either. In addition to being judged based on her past performance, you allow her to impact how clients see you during the threesome. If she shows up late, intoxicated or unprepared, it directly impacts how a client views you. A partner who lazily goes about providing services, attempts to steal from a client or acts in any other inappropriate way during an encounter may severely damage your reputation, causing you to be lumped in with their poor opinion of her. You risk gaining poor reviews and bad references. It is also assumed that your poor judgment of whom you trust with your business is a blanket statement about your professionalism. Of course, some clients may realize that the two of you are different people, but if they have an overall bad experience due to one escort, they are unlikely to seek out attention from you in the future.
  2. Her idea of discretion may be different from yours. All escorts should know the need for discretion. However, some escorts and clients don’t value it as highly as you may. As a result, she may thoughtlessly talk about your antics and adventures in ways that you would prefer she not. She may be entirely too open about her personal details or the facets of her life for your tastes. Her sharing level with clients may exceed yours. The way in which she carries herself may scream, “ESCORT!” instead of being subtlety sexy. She may fail to see the need to disclose the fact that she’s an escort, which could act directly against your efforts to maintain a low profile. Many escorts feel it’s best to simply keep to themselves, and partnering up with anybody defeats this principle. But, when you join up with an escort whose levels of discretion pale in comparison to yours, the effects are unacceptable.
  3. Your work styles may conflict. Independent escorts create their own guidelines, policies and methods of doing things. As a result, how you operate your career may differ greatly from the ways in which she conducts business. Your ethics about how you treat clients may not coincide. For example, some escorts feel it is acceptable to milk a client until he is dry, attempting to get him to book them as much as possible and provide expensive gifts. Others, though, try to be fair and discourage a client from giving them too much. Some escorts are habitually late, while you may be punctual to a fault. Others like to do a lot of small talk with clients, and you might want to get down to business. You might be the “fun” one and your partner may be into getting seriously down to the task at hand too quickly for you. Regardless of what your conflicts are, sometimes work styles just don’t coincide. And, even if you don’t completely disagree about methods, you may rub each other raw by trying to compromise all of the time. These relationships are best utilized sparingly or abandoned altogether for your own sanity’s sake.
  4. Some working relationships with other escorts end badly. Depending on your situation, the partnership you form with another escort for threesomes may disintegrate. When it does, some women tend to react in ridiculous, irrational ways. Many escorts have told tales of retaliation by jilted partners where they were “outed” to family members or friends, cheated out of money, stolen from and harassed by an angry ex-friend. Fake reviews have been posted, declaring the targeted escort incompetent or a waste of time. And, other forms of revenge have been exacted, such as violence and destruction of property.
  5. When you work with another escort, you run the risk of theft. Escorts tell repeated stories about other escorts stealing money or valuables from them. Those who invite other escorts to their incalls for threesomes often find lingerie, clothing, perfume, jewelry or other expensive items are missing. Fees sometimes fail to get split properly. And, some escorts attempt to take advantage of the other women they work with through cutting them out of future engagements or stealing regular clients.
  6. Unnecessary drama is a part of taking on a partner. When you add someone else to your working routine, you may be adding their unnecessary drama or baggage to your life. Even the best escorts have degrees of drama in their lives: relationship failures, family issues, money problems or any other crises (genuine or not). And, whether it’s intentional or not, this additional drama will affect your career when you involve them in our business. Having to cancel an encounter due to a sick child or parent is something beyond your partner’s control, but it impacts your ability to do your job, too. Dealing with a jealous ex-boyfriend showing up at an encounter with two of you is a bad deal. And, when she has a bad day, it affects yours, too. Not all drama is bad or self-imposed, but it drags you down along with it.

Tips for working with other escorts

If you’ve decided that partnering up with another escort is worth any risks you’ve considered, there are a few tips you should abide by. Take these guidelines to heart:

  1. Keep a professional relationship with your partner. Avoid becoming BFFs or intertwining your personal lives. Maintain a business relationship with her, just as you do with your clients. Getting to be close friends or intermingling your families may complicate matters if you fail to get along professionally. You can’t sacrifice your business for friendship, which could become a problem if you can’t separate the two down the line.
  2. Refrain from sharing your client list with her. Even the most trusted partners might be tempted to call one or two of your regulars when her clients are busy. Don’t let her scavenge off of your hard work. Keep your lists separate and only mingle them when one of your regulars wants a threesome.
  3. Avoid providing too many personal details to your escort partner. Even though it’s common to talk about your family or other aspects of your life, try to not include details that she could use to find you if you don’t want her to. Just like you don’t give clients your real name, don’t let her know yours. Don’t meet at your house and don’t give her opportunities to find out more information about you.
  4. Don’t be swayed to change your ways as an escort. If your career seems successful, don’t be persuaded to adopt new guidelines that differ from your old ones, begin treating clients differently based on her role modeling, decrease your effective screening methods or alter your other ways of doing things, because she thinks you should. Unless you can see that her ways are more effective or efficient (which is possible, because you can learn from each other), don’t change up what you do. Some escorts are negatively affected by others and alter their behaviors in ways that do not enhance their businesses.
  5. Do your research about any potential escort partner. Just like you screen clients, check up on her, too. Look into her reviews. Examine her profile. Peruse her photos. If you don’t like what you see or feel uncomfortable, abandon the idea of joining forces with her. Make sure that you think she is trustworthy and meets your standards for the level of service you provide to clients.