Is there a difference between sugaring and escorting? Is there a line? And what happens if you cross it? There are fairly radical feminists willing to argue that pretty much all relationships between men and women amount to prostitution of some sort because of the inherent imbalance of power between the sexes. And there are men’s rights advocates who seem to be arguing that all women are essentially on the game and men are on the hook financially in every male female relationship. Continue reading
The holidays are a wonderful time to take a few minutes and think about the year which has passed. What have you done? What has worked? What has not worked so well?
The entire idea of New Year’s Resolutions has a rather bad track record. All those promises to hit the gym more often, eat less junk food, leave toxic relationships behind – tend to evaporate by February if not before. There is a reason for that: too many people think of resolutions as objective commitments to do or not do a specific thing. They can certainly be that, but a really good resolution is an intention rather than a hard and fast commitment. A good New Year’s resolution sets a direction for the New Year.
So which directions would you like to go? Where do you want your escorting business to be in 2016? Continue reading
“As far as I am concerned I think if you are going to escort you should aim to make the most money you can as easily as you can. And that means lots of well off clients.” said Rachel in our call.
We’d found Rachel via a referral from another escort who worked in Boston. This girl told us, “I think Rachel is the smartest escort I’ve ever met. She has the whole thing figured out and you should talk to her.”
Talking to Rachel is not all that straight forward. While she advertises her services online, all of her communication is carried on through her escorting website. So we wrote. And got no answer. We asked our friend in Boston to see if she could persuade Rachel to have a chat. That did the trick. Continue reading
There are plenty of escorts out there who promise to pamper, to be luxurious, to spoil their clients. After all, booking an escort is a luxury purchase and in a competitive market some escorts will try to cater to that end of the market.
At the same time we were amazed to see an escort ad which really sounded more like an ad for a high end spa than a roll in designer sheets.
We wanted to find out more and reached out to “Juliana” through her very attractive website. A website which looks, for all the world, like a modernist piece of art. All pale, beautifully faded pastel colors. Continue reading
We were looking through some escort ads the other day and were struck by a pretty girl in Denver Colorado whose picture seemed to jump off the page. It was not that she was particularly striking to look at, there were more beautiful girls on the page, but her face has a certain welcome which is very hard to miss.
The copy to the ad was equally inviting in a fresh, sunny, very gentle way.
“I love what I do. I take wonderful care of myself and I would love to take care of you. No hurry, gentle with a deliciously wicked streak. Let’s chat.” Continue reading
The corporate world has changed radically in the last forty years. If you think about the role of women in Mad Men and compare it to the serious positions of today’s female CEOs and law firm partners the progress women have made has been extraordinary. At the same time, while women’s roles have changed, men’s desires and needs have not. What has changed, however, is a culture in which a pretty girl working in the steno pool will be recruited to help land the big client. Way too risky: mixing work and pleasure is a pretty sure fire path to a sexual harassment suit.
Which does not change the fact that many a contract can be landed by a friendly feminine touch. Which led us to Karen.
“I used to be an independent escort.” Karen told us on Skype, “Now I am a company girl.” Continue reading
Many escorts have a straight forward, matter of fact, attitude towards the business. They understand exactly what they are doing and are clear about the pleasures of making good money from escorting. Other girls have a more complex relationship between their lives and escorting.
We got a very nice note from Julia – not her real name – who seems to have taken an almost entirely unique approach to the complications escorting creates in a busy life.
We reached out to Julia on Skype and had a marvelous conversation, but before we get to Julia’s story, here’s the note in full. Continue reading
An escort friend of ours suggested we get in touch with a friend of hers. “Elise has a totally sweet deal” she told us giving us Elise’s contact details. So we phoned. And emailed. And Skyped. And then we gave up because the one thing escorts are supposed to be is easy to contact. Continue reading
When people think of escorts, if they have any image at all, they tend to see girls in their twenties with killer bodies and legs forever. Blondes stepping off the pages of the now non-nude Playboy magazine. Escorts embody a social fixation on youth.
Or do they? Continue reading
Escorts are often asked by their clients to do a bit of role play. Whether it is the naughty cheerleader or the police woman who will not take no for an answer, escorts can often make excellent money simply by gratifying the slightly unusual desires of their clients.
However, we wondered if there were not escorts who went a bit beyond the sex shop costumes and really took seriously the fantasy requests of their clients. While there were dozens of girls who offered “role play” along with the GFE and the pleasures of pampering, we had to really look to find a girl who took escorting role play to the next level.
We reached out to Martine on the basis of a really rather clever ad. Continue reading