Dear Ms Jay: Escort Q&A #5

Q: I’ve been escorting for about six months on a sort of part time basis. I am very selective and only do three or four dates a week. I love the cash and I like most of my clients. Here’s the thing. I seem to be stuck in a bit of a rut as far as dates go. I do pretty much the same thing, the same way, every time. I’m bored and I am afraid it is beginning to show. Any suggestions? Continue reading

Dear Miss Jay: Q&A #4

Q:I am an escort in a southern American city. I have a busy business, but honestly, I seem to be working hard for barely any money. My city is pretty competitive. Lots of girls. I advertise and I have a website. What can you suggest to increase my income? Continue reading

10 questions to ask before signing up with an escort agency

In a crumbling economy, functioning as an independent escort can be challenging, especially if you’re relatively new to the industry. Agencies can help escorts by providing them with a steady schedule that will help them make the income they wish to generate for themselves and their families. However, not all agencies are what they are cracked up to be. Continue reading FAQ

Q: How do I sign up at
A: To create an account, just click the red “Post your free ad now” button and follow the process. Your account will be created along the way.

Q: How do I delete a post?
A: Just follow these steps—

  1. Log in to your account. In the left sidebar click “Delete / View ads”.
  2. In the list of posted ads find the one(s) you want to delete.
  3. Check the box in the rightmost column of each ad to be deleted.
  4. Once all the right ads have been selected, click “Delete selected” at the top or at the bottom of the list.

In the screenshot below, red highlight shows the way to delete a single ad, yellow — the way to delete more than one:

Q: How do I change my phone number or email address?
A: Log into your account, click “Your details” in the menu, then choose the option you need.
How to change email or password on

Q: How do I post to a different city?
A: Log into your account, click “Post” next to the template you want to post an ad from, and on the next screen pay attention to the “change city” button next to the city name.
Change city for your post at

Q: How long does an ad stay online?
a.k.a. When does an ad expire?
A: This depends on the area where the ad was posted. For example, in New York City the ad will expire within a month, because new ads are posted often. In small cities an ad may stay up for more than 3 months. In other words, the more ads get posted in a city, the faster will the ads in this city expire.

Q: How long before I start receiving calls, texts, and emails?
A: This will depend on a few factors. The city: if you post in New York, your ad will soon be buried, unless you repost often. Without enough eye traffic, you won’t have enough prospects. The content: If you have not taken care to prepare excellent photographs and write an enticing copy, why would anyone prefer your ad to thousands of nearly identical ones? Make sure to do your homework. The market: If you are one of hundreds of thousands posters who offer the same generic abbreviations and utter nonsense like “bubbly personality, one of a kind, bla-bla-blah”, you are going to lose. Check this list: