How to reject and be rejected in the adult entertainment world?

In the adult entertainment industry, both providers and clients get turned down and hand out rejections daily. It’s a common thing, but it’s kind of a big deal when it involves you personally. Knowing how to deal with it when it’s on your plate (as the giver or receiver) is the key to making sure that communications are clear and all interactions remain cordial and “nice” between all parties involved.

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13 things you didn’t know about yourself until you became an escort

It’s certainly not every little girl’s dream to become an escort or web cam performer when she grows up. But, when the reality sets in and you find yourself absorbed into the industry as a successful adult entertainment services provider, you realize a number of things you probably take for granted about the career that weren’t even on your radar previously. Consider these things you didn’t even think about before: Continue reading

10+ reasons why this escort accepted your gig

Contacting a new escort always presents a chance that your request for an appointment may get turned down. She could be too busy, not accepting new customers or not like something about you from the beginning. It may feel like providers are inconsistent with how they accept new clients, but many of them do adhere to some standard protocols. You’ve just got to understand them to have them make sense. Consider these reasons providers DO accept a client’s request for time: Continue reading

How to ensure your escort is exactly who you want to meet

When you start looking for an escort online, it can be pretty overwhelming. The options are endless, the providers are gorgeous and it may make your head spin. When you started looking for one particular service, you may be distracted by something else that sounds fun. An ASP you hadn’t even considered before may strike your fancy — only to be replaced by the next pretty face you stumble on. In short, it’s really hard to choose a provider. But, to get the kind of services you really want, you need to do the work to ensure you get exactly what and who you want. Continue reading

How not to creep out your escort: 13 keys

Escorts of all tints of the adult entertainment industry are forever on the lookout for customers who are safety threats. Despite their attempts to screen clients, some truly scary characters slip through the gaps and create problems for providers. Because there are so many questionable types who call upon them for their services, providers are usually pretty defensive and vigilant about identifying threatening types. Knowing this, you should be on your very best behavior and avoid behaviors that would cause your provider to be creeped out by your presence. Here are some behaviors you shouldn’t engage in: Continue reading

13 reasons why you did not like your session with an escort

It’s really discouraging and frustrating when you pay any kind of service provider for an activity and fail to receive a good experience from it. Whether you’re looking for a babysitter for your child, medical care from a doctor or adult services from an entertainment provider, it’s disheartening when you feel that you didn’t get what you paid for. Understanding why the situation didn’t live up to what you hoped it would is key in scheduling future encounters that will. Some of these reasons can be attributed to being your own fault, while others are clearly beyond your control. Here are many of the reasons: Continue reading

10 disputes with a client that an escort should be prepared for

There is no business in existence that will sustain without some level of controversy with its clientele, at some point in time. It’s just a common part of doing business. You’re not always going to agree. When you’re an escort, it’s easy to take these disputes to heart. When you’re giving pieces of yourself and you put everything you have into your performances, it’s hurtful when someone acts displeased with your efforts. Some disputes are worth worrying about, while others shouldn’t stress you out, at all. Consider some common disputes you may run across as you do your thing: Continue reading

Toughen up: 11-point checklist for escorts

People enter the adult industry with the assumption that they can make a lot of money with very little work. They may be fed up with their “normal” careers and low pay. Or, they may feel the need to make some fast money, with little effort. The people who enter into the adult entertainment industry with these attitudes rarely succeed and quickly fail. If you’re serious about entering the adult entertainment industry as a provider, you need to know from the very beginning that you need to toughen up — ASAP. Here are some definite ways that you need to toughen up to be a top notch provider: Continue reading