When you start looking for an escort online, it can be pretty overwhelming. The options are endless, the providers are gorgeous and it may make your head spin. When you started looking for one particular service, you may be distracted by something else that sounds fun. An ASP you hadn’t even considered before may strike your fancy — only to be replaced by the next pretty face you stumble on. In short, it’s really hard to choose a provider. But, to get the kind of services you really want, you need to do the work to ensure you get exactly what and who you want. Continue reading
Q: I’ve been escorting for about six months on a sort of part time basis. I am very selective and only do three or four dates a week. I love the cash and I like most of my clients. Here’s the thing. I seem to be stuck in a bit of a rut as far as dates go. I do pretty much the same thing, the same way, every time. I’m bored and I am afraid it is beginning to show. Any suggestions? Continue reading
Dear Ms Jay,
I have a small escorting business which is more of a sideline. I have a good job as a web designer but the extra income from escorting is very welcome. Continue reading
One of my regular clients likes to tell me his fantasies. Most of them involve his being tied up or punished in some way. It is pretty obvious that he would like me to do some of the things he is fantasizing about but I really have no idea where to begin. Can you show me the ropes? Continue reading
Q: I have one regular client who I think I may be developing feelings for. When I see his number on my phone my heart skips a beat. I text him if I have not heard from him. What should I do?
A: Well, that is a rather significant hazard of the business. Continue reading
Q: Every so often one of my gentlemen arrives none too, well, clean.
A: What to do? Run a bubble bath, of course! Continue reading
Working as an escort has some unique perks that you’re not likely to enjoy when working in other positions. One of the most universally cited luxuries is being in control of your own work schedule and having no one to answer to. Continue reading
An escort knows the majority of his clientele will likely be older than he is. There is just a certain level of understanding that youth is a very prized and alluring attribute to possess; with it the world is often your oyster. From a man’s perspective, virility and power are the two characteristics that comprise the majority of what gay men consider attractive, and therefore – in our business – highly marketable. Continue reading
My escort name was Jake. If I wanted to know more about you, I’d tell you it was Jacob, off the bat. You can tell a lot from someone by the way they respond to a person’s name. Would they make fun of it, would they test it, or would they think it’s cute? Does it remind them of someone from their past and is that good or bad? After all, we’re in the business of pleasure and it’s bad for business to choose a name that your client may have negative associations with. Continue reading
The escort industry, white legal, is a target of permanent legal bullying. Charging money for your time is, again, legal. However, law enforcement personnel are more interested in what may or may not happen while you’re on a date with a client. Continue reading