Work less, make more: A companion’s New Year’s resolutions

The holidays are a wonderful time to take a few minutes and think about the year which has passed. What have you done? What has worked? What has not worked so well?

The entire idea of New Year’s Resolutions has a rather bad track record. All those promises to hit the gym more often, eat less junk food, leave toxic relationships behind – tend to evaporate by February if not before. There is a reason for that: too many people think of resolutions as objective commitments to do or not do a specific thing. They can certainly be that, but a really good resolution is an intention rather than a hard and fast commitment. A good New Year’s resolution sets a direction for the New Year.

So which directions would you like to go? Where do you want your escorting business to be in 2016? Continue reading

How to be a companion who escorts hedgies

“As far as I am concerned I think if you are going to escort you should aim to make the most money you can as easily as you can. And that means lots of well off clients.” said Rachel in our call.

We’d found Rachel via a referral from another escort who worked in Boston. This girl told us, “I think Rachel is the smartest escort I’ve ever met. She has the whole thing figured out and you should talk to her.”

Talking to Rachel is not all that straight forward. While she advertises her services online, all of her communication is carried on through her escorting website. So we wrote. And got no answer. We asked our friend in Boston to see if she could persuade Rachel to have a chat. That did the trick. Continue reading

The holidays for escorts and other ASPs

Thanksgiving, Black Friday, Christmas decorations in all the stores the day after Halloween; it’s that time of the year. Good news and bad news for escorts. Good news because many clients love to follow up a Christmas party with the pleasures an escort can offer, bad news because clients are often caught up with family driven Christmas events and can’t get away. Like any mixed blessing, the Holiday Season for escorts is as much about planning and creativity as it is about an expected fall off in business. Continue reading

Escorting your way to solvency

Writing this column for a while you begin to get a bit weary of the straight escort success stories. Lovely girls who have decided to capitalize on their looks for great money escorting are interesting but are they the reality?

When Angie got in touch we checked out her website and found a buxom blonde on the other side of thirty. The site was pretty similar to the escorting sites we’ve seen. Lots of quite nice pictures of a girl who is obviously not shy. But the copy was a little different.

I escort because I love the kindness of strangers

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New Year, new you: 5 things to make your escorting business sing & dance in 2016

The New Year is a great time to make resolutions, lay out plans, review your business and set goals. But we live in a world of instant gratification and quick fixes–so what can you do right now to measurably improve your escorting business and, while you’re at it, your life?

Five things to strive for 2016: happier, healthier, richer, prettier and calmer. Who wouldn’t want to start the year taking actions which will put all of these within reach. So let’s start. Continue reading

Top 13 things you will miss about escorting if you quit

Most escorts enter into the industry with a goal to retire “soon.” It’s not usually a long-term plan to stay in the career for a lifetime. It’s usually a way for a person to amass some serious savings, adopt a more flexible lifestyle and get paid what he or she is worth. Sometimes, it may even be way to acquire enough money to open a business or start a new career adventure. But, many adult services providers find that they seriously miss their old jobs when they go back to “traditional” working environments. If and when you consider quitting the escort industry, consider the top things you will miss about escorting when you leave: Continue reading

13 things providers should never consent to even in dire need of money

Unfortunately, it’s all too common for an escort to become desperate for money. Whether it’s because you’re new to the industry and are struggling to develop a full schedule of bookings or you’ve encountered a dry spell of clients (or many other circumstances could be causing you financial difficulties), it’s a terrible state to be in. Continue reading

Escorts can change everything by changing one thing

Speaking with a lot of escorts of late doing a phone promotion, one of the things which came up over and over was that while most were generally satisfied with their business, there was a fair amount of ennui. One girl said to me, “I basically have the same date three or four times a day.” While a good, professional attitude can get you through a lot, the fact is tedium can make escorting a chore (and, let’s face it; a bore). Continue reading

What does this escort do with her money?

There are some elite escorts who make $2,000 an hour and up. Many others are able to command $200 to $400 an hour for their services. Some of these girls are the classic «low volume providers». They don’t work much—they leisurely hustle; but they do work smart—they have both money and time. On the other hand, there are escorts who work five or six days a week and see four or five clients a day and charge a paltry sum. They have neither time nor money. Why? And, more importantly, how can a girl avoid this unhappy state of affairs? Continue reading